When was the time you were happiest while making love with your partner, if not a scheduled intercourse. Planning a baby is something people find easy initially. But, when it comes to practicing it as per the doctor’s suggestion, couples may or may not find it compelling enough as baby-making sex is not really that fun. Planned sex may take a toll on the relationship sometimes. Making love for a sole purpose to reproduce affects the mutual understanding of both the partners. In order to have a child, couples are bound to get intimate even if one or both of them are not in a great mood. So, such couples should not let the spark of their relationships vanish. Let us not take this beautiful goal of one’s life, a romance ruiner.
Connection, Romance, and Communication go hand-in-hand for a healthy relationship. It must not jumble you and your partner and change your goal of sex from pleasure to ‘let us make a baby’. Here we are summing up some tips for you to keep your sexual intimacy alive while you try toconceive:
Pleasure is all you need
Do not take stress for planned sex as if it was your job. It should just bring pleasure, illuminate the spark and help you feel connected emotionally and physically. Enjoy the journey and not just the end goal.
Stay away from the blame game
If this whole family planning criteria is taking longer than what was hoped we should remember that patience is the virtue of any relationship. Never try and blame your partner as being happy is all that matters while you aim to have a child. Always try and be on the same team.
No sex-dates
There must be some free time rather than just focussing to have sex for making a baby. Spend quality time with your partner and let the calendar have leisure time from the a goal oriented sexual intercourse. When the process is fun, it brings the lost desire to get in sack for the pleasure and not just baby-making.
A mini vacation would do magic
Go away from the monotonous daily routine and spend few days vacating. Keep away your cell phones, email, internet, as well as other people. Whether your body is in its fertile zone or not, we should just try and reconnect. It will play as a harbinger in rejuvenating that almost gone spark
Keep the humour ON
Communication will do the rest of the job. Keep talking about things that appear funny in terms of getting prepared for a child, about your initial days as a couple and about the days when you were not ready for a child. Laugh out loud and keep the spark alive!
Concluding things, we understand that if the basic criterias of a relation are dealt with, having a baby should just be another step towards eternal fulfillment.
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